3 year old bobcat

I have a 3 year old blue bobcat that has been neutered and declawed on all 4 paws. He has been raised by my family since he was a 2 week old kitten. He gets along with our 2 dogs that he was raised with but will try to kill any other animal he comes otni contact with. he can be the sweet and affectionate when he wants to be but can be very aggressive at times as well. He absolutely loves my son and husband so i would think he tends to do better with males than females because of this behavior and the fact that we have younger children in our home we have decided to try and find him a more suitable home preferably a sanctuary or as an exhibit animal since he is easy to work around or in ahome with no other animals or young children. I was unable to upload a picture for some reason so please email with questions or for pictures
thank you